Archive for November 2009
In Memoriam: Mr. Marcus Hernandez
Please do come pay your respects, if you can, to Mr. Hernandez. I will be in service at Ms. SF Leather, and acting as one of the Honor Guard for this solemn and joyful celebration of this Leather Icon. Copyright © 2006 Bay Area Reporter, a division of Benro Enterprises, Inc. Memorial for ‘Mister Marcus’…
Read MoreRace-play roll-up and ruminations.
You might not have known me back when I first started talking publicly about my experiences as a Black woman, into BDSM, as a submissive /slave identified person, who did scenes that incorporated and underscored racial issues in play. If you did, you remember the flamewars, fights, humiliating rejection, condemnation and various hootenannies that fell…
Read MoreSunday Morning Sexytime Story: K.I.S.S.
Been a while so here we go with a simple little reminder to Keep It Simple, Stupid. Kissing is awesome. Awesome and underrated. I know I’m not alone in feeling that the intimacy of a kiss is a profound one. Back when I used to occasionally go in for casual hook-ups, it wasn’t unusual of…
Read MoreFrom the Coyote’s Mouth.
There is always room for something new, and even this old bitch can learn a new trick! SO today marks a cherry broken: a cross-post of another blogger’s writings. My Twitter friend, CoyoteToo, posted today some thoughts that I found imminently digestible, interesting, thoughtful and unusual. Unusual in that not too often does one see…
Read MoreHello, Nightmare!
“This isn’t all about you. It isn’t some fantasy, none of that safeword bullshit. It is all about me, right now, and for your foreseeable future. So scream all you want. I don’t give a fuck. No one does.†This strange dark slippery sentiment crept into my head yesterday. Sitting at work combing through the…
Read MoreMo’s nogamy.
Heart monogamy is how I’ve recently come to identify my idea of my optimal relationship structure. While I know many people eschew labels and frown upon being “boxed,†I see well-placed labels as a great way for people listening to me to grab onto what I’m talking about. I can then drag them along for…
Read MoreI’m 59!
from http://www.betweenmysheets.com/ Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009 It’s here. Finally. I promised it earlier, I know. Life got in the way (I’ll talk about it in my next post). That, and I had well over 150 unique nominations this year, counting all the comments and the nominations I received via email. Last year, I…
Read More“Drip” ~ by Christina Anderson = EPIC. WIN.
I am in a play that is up and running right now. I’m acting my ass OFF and I hope you can come support your local theater! Christina Anderson is the playwright, Marissa Wolf Directed, Crowded Fire Produced, and a ragingly awesome cast and crew bring it to ya! GO. BUY. TICKETS! Or don’t come…
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