Advice for those new to Kink: From “How My Other Half Lives”

February 15, 2010 |

I am not a wheel re-inventer. SO, when someone else has taken the time and energy to thoughtfully and thoroughly answer a question I’m often asked, I’ll pass the motherfucking buck! My buddy@SaschaK posted a great blog entry on her home on the range, How my other half lives that I think everyone should read.…

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“Play” vs. Play.

February 9, 2010 |

I have a demo coming up this weekend for the Madtown Kinkfest. I really love the folks there, and I’m looking forward to it. I have a somewhat unique situation in that, because of popular demand, (believe me, it sounds even weirder to me than it does to you) I’m tracked on my own session…

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Shoutbacks & Shoutouts & Cupcakes.

February 9, 2010 |

I’m always a little “!!!?!?!?!?” when people mention, quote or talk about me in their writings.  But it makes all the gut-wrenching puling moaning and late night Waaaaaaaaaambulance calls worth it, if someone else can share in it with me. My entree to sex was awesome: I was 15, he was 18, we fucked all…

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Half Full.

February 8, 2010 |

I need approval. Someone patting me on the head and giving me that “Good Girl.” Can melt away the thickest glacier of self-loathing and dissolve the greasiest oil-slick of self-imposed reflexive hatred. I clearly recall, with fondness, having resentment, anger, self-pity, even rage, wiped away by my dominant telling me how good job I was…

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“Not Yo’ Mama’s Tea Party” is coming…SAVE THE DATE!

February 4, 2010

An outrageous tea party is hitting the ground on SUNDAY February 21st! Tea! Tea demos! Bondage! Bondage Demos! Silent auction! Loud-Ass auction! Celebrity Guests! RUBBER CHICKEN SPANKINGS! Divas and Deviants all mixing it up to help raise funds for LYRIC, The Transgender Law Center Crowded Fire Theater Company and the Ms. SF Leather Travel Fund!…

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POC @ LLC! Tell your story ASAP!

February 1, 2010 |

I am deeply honored and delighted to have been invited to present and share at the Leather Leadership Conference XIV this April 9th-11th , in Detroit, Michigan! I am sure some of you will be in attendance, but I know that not everyone can do so. I’m asking for your input, you thoughts, and your…

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