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Feeling wrong feels right.
A few years back, I saw an insanely rough sex moment in an adult flick. A man was hitting it doggie style, shagging the hell out of a woman while pulling her arms into a painful stretch behind her. He then abruptly folded her arms together on the small of her back, swung his leg up…
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Sunday Morning Sexytime Story: “Topping from the Bottom”
Let me be perfectly clear. I neither use nor believe in the term “topping from the bottom.” There are lots of reasons for that, which I’ll explain later if enough people hound me about it. Suffice to say the obvious reason is this: once I am topping you, I am no longer on the bottom.…
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Scene Report: Diva #23
Shibaricon marked the first BDSM Convention for which I’d made multiple play-dates, all of which I initiated. I’ve spent the past year-and-a-half of so building up my kink résumé with many events, cons and classes: and all but a handful of them were out of state. I haven’t played much locally of late, and I…
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Salvaged from the Ashes.
I was lamenting the fact that I had not only the bitterness of not being able to perform in the run of the musical I’d been rehearsing for months, but also how that had precluded my being able to take a presenter’s berth for few BDSM events. Several I’d really been interested in I hadn’t…
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HNT ~ Back to Work.
Ducked into the Little Girl’s Room for this quickie HNT. I’m still a little wonky in the head from coming off of all of the pain medication I was on since the Ovary of Doom made its presence felt. But I’m hauling onward! I think I like my reflection better than myself. But then, my…
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The fundamental things apply…
I had Someone Who Has Been Flirting with me ask me today if I “…liked kissing.” Which is a pithier query than one might think. See, being uninitiated in the vagaries of my journey and experience within the BDSM community, he couldn’t have been aware of how charged a question this was for me.
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Sugasm #169
Sugasm #169 July 9th, 2009 by Vixen | Updated: July 9th, 2009 Jenny McClain courtesy of Badgirl’s Hotbox. The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. This Week’s Picks Clothespin Communion “Surrender to the sensation.†Remembering the Pain “And it really…
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Sugasm #168
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #169? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s Picks Covet…
Read MoreCupcakes and Bathtime and Joy.
My birthday…in moving pictures and still moments and a few words here and there… I even had a special surprise delivery from my friend Julie, who snuck in an adorable little charm of one of my fave inappropriately named snacks! The cast of the show I’m rehearing now, Rent Boy Ave, bought me some old…
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40-Up.
SO today, I’m 40 years old. What. The. Hell. Please feel free to leave awesome birthday wishes and remind me why getting old is cool…? My ass STILL has that weird angle to the side. Some shit never changes. Bringing class to the baby photo studio. Modest? Moi? Busted nomming this white lady’s thigh. Shit.…
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HNT! [Horsie Nekkid Thursday]
Since I’m almost 40 (3 days to go!) and therefore entitled to not give a flying fuck about what people have to say about me, this week’s HNT is brought to you from horseback. I bought him not long after I got sober. I was on unemployment, barely scraping by. Â I passed a little antique…
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Just fucking.
My knuckles pressed into the pale hollow formed by his hip as the muscles and bone slipped beneath skin damp from the shower, and I slid my hand up his side, ribs evident beneath an expanse of freckles. “What’s with this Jesus of Nazareth post-fasting look you’re rocking here, dude?†He laughed, somewhat ruefully. “Yeah…
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Sunday Morning Sexytime Story: “The Giving Tree”
Note: this covers some moderate “Daddy / girl ageplay” stuff,so if that is a trigger for you, please take care of yourself and move on to another SMSS!
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It is time for the Best of the Bay series! Each year the San Francisco Bay Guardian prints a “Best of the Bay†issue and a few years back, my solo show “69Stories, one Pervert’s tale†was running and I was voted “Best Solo Performer†that year. It was pretty neat! There are a lot…
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Incidental submission.
The other day I was told “No, you’ll do it this way.” In my professional life. And, Ganesha help me, I loved it. Sure, at first, not so much. But within a few minutes I was strangely pleased. Smoothed out. Dare I say, perky, even. I had a customer issue I needed to address, and…
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Mo’s Online Dating Tips For Pervs, Volume I : Handling your Handle
I will say that I have some expertise in the online dating thing. As an employee now for a site in which I’ve been an active member for almost 12 years and continuously since July 27th, 1998, and furthermore as an avid info-vacuum, I have gleaned much and winced repeatedly. I’m gonna throw down some…
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Bird Tops an entire Sidewalk
This bird is the shit. Tops everyone and anyone who pisses them off. Embedded video from CNN Video
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Obedience & Submission, take 2.
I just had an aha….let’s see if this lands. I wanna post before I forget that I think this is a good plank in my platform here… * * clears throat ** “OBEDIENCE is bowing to the letter of the law, while  SUBMISSION is bowing to the SPIRIT of the law.†Whaddya think?
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“Race Play: It NOT a Game:” A dissenting viewpoint.
Most of the people who post opinions contrary to mine on race play do not take the time to articulate much. As I mention, I take into account the opinions and feeling of dissenters whenever I speak or present on the topic. I am posting here, unedited, and with the express written permission of the original…
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Sunday Morning Sexytime Stories ~ “Male Physiology 201”
SMSS ~ Male Physiology 201 from Mollena Williams on Vimeo.
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Submission vs Obedience: Mo’s Internal Committee is no help at all.
“There’s a difference,” I mused, while furiously scanning kinky profiles to find a couple of dozen that meet the insane criteria for my Nefarious Corporate purposes “…for me there IS a difference between being obedient and being submissive.”  This gets the attention of Mo’s Internal Committee for a moment. Today we’ve had some shit rolling…
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HNT ~ BUNNY PYJAMAS, BITCHES!!!
Enough SAID, motherfuckers! Â Â Â I ordered this pink AWESOMENESS from PajamaCity.com! Â Hoppy HNT!
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For today…I win. Right now…I rule.
I recently received a comment from a reader on my blog here that was if critical import to me in a time where i face cutting criticism and sometimes feel like I’m swimming upstream on a futile mission about which no one really cares. I’ll quote it here: Wow. I am blown away. I read…
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