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Who’s Your Daddy?
Styles of dominance are as varied as chili recipes. OK. SO maybe that is a kind of fucked up analogy, but whatever. I like chili. But some people like the pure old-school shit: the meat, the whole meat, and nothing but the meat. And some people will not accept chili that does not have the…
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Beaten.
One of the more striking things about being struck…and struck repeatedly…is how fluid time becomes, how simple it is to take leave of your senses and allow your body’s chemical reactions to rule the day. Rarely do I do well in a BDSM scene when someone comes at me with their energy at a raging…
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Please don’t hurt the…masochist???
I value the relationships I have formed within the BDSM community. It is not only that we have the commonality of kink, it is that being a pervert means that you smite the artifice of sexual Gerrymandering. I am living a charmed life in some ways. My lifestyle as an “Out Kinky Pervert” actually was…
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Sugasm one-hundred and fifty plus eight
Sugasm! 158! The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #159? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing Vixen directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Sealing the Deal “A hand reached down and…
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SUPPORT DAVID W. OGDEN!
I’ll make this short. If you read my blog, the likelihood is that you dig the idea that we have the right to fuck the way we want, and that choice is important. The nominee for Assistant Attorney General, David W. Ogden, Â is coming under fire for defending the right for choice, the right to…
Read MoreHey lookit that! Thanks, Pleasurists!
Best Sex Toy Reviewers is an annual list compiled by Domina Doll and Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek. Only reviewers who reviewed during the year of 2008 were considered, there will be a list for 2009 next year. Each reviewer was rated separately by two people (Domina Doll and Scarlet Lotus did not rate themselves, their second…
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TwitterLovin’ is Tweet, Tweet Music…
 I’m starting off a collection of clips from those who have shown me some Twitterloving. For those rainy days, some sunbeams to remind me to shine.   http://twitter.com/katebornstein/status/1166114014 http://twitter.com/coyotetoo/status/1168696199
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Jane’s Guide!! Ooo ooo, yay!!
 The Perverted Negress You know you’re in for a witty treat of a writer when there is a line that involves the term “Jacks-off Pollock.” It only gets better from there. Mollena is the Perverted Negress, and her blog is a delightful mix of news, the occasional review of a sex toy/sexuality item, pictures…
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DIY Masochism [Or: “Ow!! #@%$^!!!”]
The other day I was at my desk at work, grimacing over the hundreds upon hundreds of photographs of our member’s members when I decided I needed a fucking break. I stood up and was about to push my chair back when, by the Holy Sweet trompibulating trunk of my Dear Lord Ganesha I smacked the FUCK…
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Performance. Anxiety.
“How can I compete with a class where someone gets a fucking BLOWJOB from a PORNSTAR?!?!” This is my agony today. Lame? Maybe.  Weird? Certainly.  Self-precipitated?  Definitely. But nonetheless. See, as a kink educator, I have the unique opportunity to share my experience with other perverts. I think that is a singular honor, one I don’t take lightly, and…
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Origins, Part II: Caught.
Continuation from ORIGINS:Falling Caught. I made it about two steps out of the bathroom when I felt a hand around my neck, pulling me into the bedroom slamming me up against the wall. I blinked. The door to the bedroom, kicked shut, cut off the light from the sitting room. My eyes had hardly adjusted…
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HNT: Cupcake (& cheesecake) with a few helping hands…
 I was fortunate enough to spend the waning days of the Bush epoch fail in my hometown. It was even MORE fortunate that I was able to meet some of my new friends, as well as old friends. And the cherry on top was that Rachel Kramer-Bussell’s shindig In The Flesh was catered with…
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HNT: Guns and Tits. America. Fuck Yeah.
I had to to crop out awesome babe-from-whom-I-have-explicit-permission-to-repost since I couldn’t locate my other friend in time. SO, pay no attention to the fabulous tatas framing me, my amazing toy and my Weave-Of-Myth-And-Wonder. Bonus points if you know the guns Points taken off if you looked at the guns first!
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digging. uncut.
I have too many. Â Identities. I do not even feel compelled to list them all lest they take on the glib slickness I am striving to escape even now. Â I do not want to be looked at. Â I need to be seen. Â And using attitude as costuming, my history as the…
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The new “WHO’S YOUR DADDY?” poll is up!
We all do it. Fantasize about celebrities, historical figures, the hot Pizza Delivery Guy…wonder what it would be like to engage in hot nasty horizontal mambo, vertical sweaty shenanigans, and hardcore SM DP gang-bangs, where you are plundered and used by hot ruthless tops with unflagging, demented sexual appetites. Maybe that lat one is just me…   One…
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WYD?: Bond vs. Bond
Take a moment and ponder…to whom would you rather bottom? And why? Would Connery’s take on Bond, the martini-shaking snappy-phrase emoting sly slick talker, light your fire? Or would  the newer sleeker deadlier Craig’s Bond be more your speed? Vote, damn you! [poll id=”4″] the void: when are you going to do the next WYD?…
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Su-gasm!
HNT courtesy of Well Spanked Man. The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. This Week’s Picks Mouth Music “Can you feel the heat of my lips taunting you yet?†4 a.m. “My mouth craves skin and I dip my head to her shoulder.†Wanting “I want my whisper in your…
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From the dusty-ass past.
Oh shit. Yeah, OK, so I’m not a fucking poet. I leave that shit to the professionals and those overcome by hubris. But a looooooooong time ago, back when I was a lil-behbeh pervert, I was involved in an online relationship. Yeah, OK. Pick your jaw up off of the fucking floor. It is all true. I…
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No “Do-overs.”
It has been a long time since I have participated in a full-bore ass to the ground mind in the ether scene. I wonder if “Use it or lose it!” applies here? I remember my first scenes. And how the pain was such a strange flavour. Garlic ice cream peppery cotton candy chocolate bacon flavours.…
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Great Moments In Douchebaggery.
OK, this is, verbatim, from a profile on some…um. Let’s just say, a Kinky Dating Site.  About Me: I AM VERY AGERESIVE AND YOU WILL DO AS I SAY OR ELSE YOUR ASS IS MINE FOR THE SPANKING!!!!! My Ideal Person: I WANT A WOMAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO SATISFY A MAN. AND LOVES ANAL…
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I just want your extra time and your…
I find it very interesting that even the most jaded perverts seem to agree with my particular POV: kissing is an extremely intimate act. I had an ongoing casual thing, for years, with someone who I don’t think I ever kissed. Perhaps the first time. Maybe. Once. However. When the stated purpose of the meeting…
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