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Where ARE these “Predatory dominants”?
I attend quite a few Kink / Leather / BDSM events. I don’t wear obvious symbols of ownership.* I’m a pretty friendly person. I can count on one hand the times I’ve been slimed by tops at these events. in over 11 years, it is an extremely rare occurrence. But to read the fluttering panicky…
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Decadence, Debauchment & Doin’ it Dry.
About a week ago I received an invitation to a rather intriguing New Year’s Eve event. For the uninitiated (this includes myself as I have never attended) you can read about the event here. The gist is that the party focuses on setting a “Resolution,” of which other Debauched attendees will dutifully and gleefully do…
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Eartha. Drag Queens. Santa, Baby.
RIP. When I was a kid there weren’t many bad-ass black ladies kicking butt and looking sexy doing it. And I wasn’t allowed to see Pam Grier flicks, so my role model for asswhippings was Eartha Kitt. Looking fine as hell in that catsuit…damn. She’s obviously inspired a few perverts over the years as well……
Read MoreMollena sez “Yo! SUGASM one-hundred and fifty-five,Beotches!”
Sugasm #155 HNT courtesy of Northern lights and sleepless nights. The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #156? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks I’m…
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THE PERVERTED NEGRESS: ORIGINS
 From 69Stories: One Pervert’s Tale: It was/is an autobiographical telling of bits of my life. None of it is slanderous, libelous, OR untrue These are the facts as I remember them and are retold with joy, and with fond recollection. Mostly ;-) FALLING  Falling is something we usually associate with awkwardness, a loss…
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In 14,430.9 days, I have yet to…
Have a ménage à trois that involved multiple men. I don’t think, if memory serves (which it often doesn’t because my memory usually is behind a dumpster somewhere skulking and smoking clove cigarettes and refusing to fetch and carry anything so far as ONE synaptic gap, thankyouverymuch) that I have even had a co-topping scene…
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You are not the boss of me!
One of the myths I dispelled immediately among my friends was that being a masochist means that ALL pain is delectable. And that being submissive meant that I’d be doing their dishes. I still hate gong to the dentist, and apart from the supercalifragilisticexpialimasochist dude in Little Shop of Horrors, I know few people who…
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WYD?: Vader vs. Joker
[poll id=”3″] ____________________________________________________________________ the void: Eddie Murphy is in the next Batman movie Mollena: ?!??!?!?! Mollena: as who? Mollena: The Loser?!?! the void: The Riddler Mollena: but they already HAD a Riddler flick the void: they already had a Joker too the void: http://tinyurl.com/4f4p2d Mollena: and I said that same thing when I heard about…
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WTF Wednesday: Whip and tell.
An online friend recently wrote about their decision to kibosh writing scene reports. They questioned their motives. Was it “show-offery”? Who was the report for, anyway, if not for the people involved to “strut their stuff”? And why yammer to the world about yo private biz-nass? What happens in the Dungeon stays in the Dungeon,…
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Pleasurists #8 – Toy Review Round-Up!
Editor’s Pick LELO Mia by Beautiful Dreamer Note: there is a written component to the review as well. Read it here. Madame Editrix Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek Vibrators Diamond Butterfly by Backseat Boohoo Mia by Ansley Agnello LELO Gigi by Hedonistic Bitch If Jane Jetson Had a Vibrator – bSoft by Ansley Agnello Driving Home –…
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Put up or shut up.
When people are first coming out into the BDSM community and feeling wallflowerish, new, awkward and like a kid on the outskirts of the cafeteria looking for a way to be closer to the “Cool” table, I often recommend that they volunteer for events. Munches are a great way to meet people, sure. BDSM and…
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Sugasm 154, y’all!
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #155? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Watching “My heart raced as I watched him stare at me, wondering if…
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HNT: Post Yoga Glow.
I am a huffing puffing puffin-belly on the Yoga floor But the studio where I have only just started this practice of being present is an amazing environment in which to work. And the instructor with whom I have gone through two incredible 90 minute journeys is nothing short of spec-fucking-tacular. I had a whole…
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I wanna be full of WIN.
VOTE FOR ME!! No, this is not a cpontest that involves it being my birthday. Not THAT kind of Shorty! Yep, leave it to me to pervert an online popularity contest. If you are a TWITTER ADDICT, or Tweetling N00b, Â please vote for me for top Kinky Twitterererer! http://www.shortyawards.com/category/kinky And hell, vote for me for…
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WTF Wednesday: Come. On my “face”.
“Do you know what a ‘Tribute photo’ is?” A lazy afternoon in bed with my laptop. I am on IM with an online friend and under normal circumstances, I might take a moment to research the thing myself before responding “No.” I have a thing about gathering knowledge myself. A cursory search turns up very…
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“So why are you still single?”
(The name and the grammar have been (partially) changed / corrected to (kinda) protect the innocent) Mollena: Hi there…I suppose it has been an entire day since you sent that IM to me….and my gods were you up early in a Sunday! gimmiesomebooty: lol yea gimmiesomebooty: so how are you chocolate perfection? Mollena: You are…
Read MoreThe Pleasurists #7
Seven by Jean Paul Four Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #6? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #8? Submit it here before Sunday December 14th at 11:59pm…
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Making a Dark Odyssey…alone.
I will be leaving beautiful San Francisco to visit our nation’s capital twice within a one-month period. W000t! This first is to take part in the stunning moment of history that is the Coronation Inauguration of Barack Hussein Obama. Holyshit. I still have a slow burn of effulgent shock when I think on what we…
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Shallow Mo…
I don’t usually advertise myself as a switch. Why? Because I’m not, centrally, switch-focused. I have found a depth of fulfillment within my submissive nature that is pretty fucking startlingly WINtastic. But every once in a while someone gets through the cracks and I think “Well, maybe, maybe I could switch…” And I wish it…
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Sugasm #153: hot off the presses…
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #154? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing ’em directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom! This Week’s Picks For tonight, we’ll forget who and what we are. “I…
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OMGLULZROFFLECOPTER!!! The funniest fucking BDSM Thanksgiving video EVAR!!!
I fucking WEEP every time I watch this….MAD PROPS to Viviane for pimping this link!!
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