The Whistle Stop Tour is a-comin’!

October 10, 2012

The “Playing Well With Others” tour is creeping up on ya!  HELP US AFFORD TO TOUR… and get your own signed copies of books, “Wanna Do Some Stuff” cards, and so much more! Pre-Tour Appearances! Sunday October 21st : Brookline, MA :  Mollena teaches for MOB New England. Tuesday, October 23rd, Sommerville, MA: Up-Close & Yummy: an intimate class…

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IMPACT.

September 16, 2012 |

IMPACT. a short film. World Premier: Yerba Buena Center for the Arts ASKEW Film Festival. Conceived, Directed by and starring Mollena Williams Aeric Meredith-Goujon ~ Assistant Director, Camera, Editing Featuring: Laura Antoniou Nayland Blake Lee Harrington Sinclair Sexsmith  Lolita Wolf Special Thanks to Madison Young, the Yerba Buena Center for the Arts,  Laura Antoniou and Karen Taylor  

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Boba FettLife!

August 20, 2012

One of the awesome “Rules if the Internet” is Rule 34: If it exists, there is porn of it. A friend on Facebook, upon seeing me mention Fetlife, mentioned that he thought I was, of course, referring to Boba Fett. I could not resist seeing if the legendary bounty hunter was the source of any…

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Moving the bar on “healthy.”

September 26, 2011 |

I’m unplugging today, the way I often do when I feel like I’m about to short short-circuit on emotional shit.  It is post Folsom weekend.  The Dominant Guy and his wife are headed back home, and I barely held it together through the weekend as I fretted about not seeing him for an extended period of time. I’m in…

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Leather Reign 2010…my keynote speech.

April 20, 2011 |

I’ve been invited to do keynotes at Leather / Kink events a handful of times, and as someone who doesn’t really believe in writing speeches, this always throws me into a blind panic. Yes, one of my own making but I personally challenge myself to life up to the challenge of what speeches are, IMO,…

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Adjusting the idle.

March 22, 2011 |

I have a hard time straight-up asking for advice. Partly because I am afraid of people doing that whole “I’m worried about you!” thing when I do. It seems often when I do say “Yeah, I’m struggling with this…can you help me?” a great deal of the time I get a response that pushes me…

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Accepting your submissive self.

March 7, 2011 |

Some anonymous person asked me the following on Formspring…and I felt more like talking to them rather than writing about it. Admitting my submissive side is one of the hardest things that’s happened to me. I don’t know what to think or do with myself anymore. I wonder if it’s a result of past sexual…

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PSA: Munches. Are. Low-Key. On. Purpose.

March 2, 2011 |

I have now, in the past 3 days, seen 4-5 threads about newcomers complaining about the lack of kink, sex, and fuckery at Munches. If you read the history, you’ll see what happens when Munches deviate from this rule. And some folks in the PNW re-learned this lesson the hard way recently. Dating and “getting…

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