Going’s On
How You Know You Are On The Rag.
1) Experience Violent chocolate pudding craving. 2) Go on midnight pudding run in strange town. 3) Discover there is no pre-made pudding. 4) Buy milk, pudding mix & Lactaid pills so you can eat whole milk. 4A)…because FUCK SOY MILK I AM TIRED OF NOT HAVING THE REAL STUFF YOU BASTARD COLON!!
Read MorePardon the wonk!
Thing’s will be a bit wonky for a little while as my site is being awesomeified! Here’s my travel & appearances calendar, in case you need to know when I’ll be in your town!  Please take a look at the book hitting your eyeballs in September: Playing Well with Others, the amazing book Lee Harrington and I wroted!…
Read MoreWhat I’m not saying.
The past month or so has been difficult in ways I’ve not seen before, and to a degree I’ve not previously experienced. I’m used to doing my processing out loud, and it has helped me immensely. I thrive on tossing up my inner workings, letting them come to light, welcoming others to join the…
Read MoreBroken and grateful.
I have no fucking idea what the hell I’m doing…it seems all I can do to remember to breathe. Wonderful. You’ve finally understood what has always been true. The breath you are taking right now is all you really ever have. I’ve been working hard on meditating, and have been less than…
Read MoreSome late-evening disjointed ramblings & bullshit, really.
I am just rambling a bit…I have a great deal on my heart and on my mind but the process is still in process and lots of it really is a bit more personal than can be dissected in the public forum of blogs and such. But I have to write something, and I’m…
Read MoreWhen submission is a dry biscuit.
So…long-distance relationships are teh lame. We can agree they are not really all that ideal. Some times are easier than others. And there is a terrible amount of pressure on the time you can eke out to be together virtually, because by the time you have the bandwidth to talk, goddammit, it had better be connected,…
Read MoreUpcoming class at the SF Citadel!
Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:00 PM to 10:00 PM SF Citadel, 1277 Mission Street, SF, CA $20.00 dress code: whatever makes you happy Presented by Mollena (Mo) Williams Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the alternative lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for…
Read MoreOne year. Today.
In one year… I have grown so much. I’ve pushed myself beyond the bounds of what I thought I needed to find joy, what I thought I found desirable, what I thought was possible. It was a year ago today I shook hands with a man who, I would very soon learn, was to…
Read Morebacklash
I’m starting to envy those who actually have time for “drop.” That whole “con-drop” thing isn’t something I’ve personally processed, it isn’t a cycle to which I’m accustomed, because I always have the next convention on the horizon. And the rare times I go over a month without a major kink event are the times…
Read MoreService animal.
Having a memory as surreal as mine is, occasionally, amusing. I can recall some conversations with freakish clarity, be they the day before yesterday or Valentine’s Day 1993. But please don’t ask me what I ate for lunch yesterday. So this makes for fun times when I buy something for myself, totally forget, then feel…
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