Going’s On
Nothing to see here…
I’ve been here & in service & writing & working for a little over a week now. I haven’t had much in the way of time for personal writing. More to the point, I am in the midst of this crazy-ass root-level emotional liquefaction that has left me gasping a bit for…
Read MoreWhere she at?
If you are late to the game, you may have missed my recent lifestyle shift! I’m a wandering troubadour at present, singing my songs of perversion all over the place. SO here are a few places where you will be able to find me in the next month and a half, and see what I’m…
Read More“…to be brave.”
I’m writing words none of you will read. I’m phrasing an inner monologue I don’t want anyone to hear. I’m voicing fears I do not want to face and, in bad moments? Resent having to share at all. I’m editing a document that is supposed to facilitate one of the more critical…
Read MoreI see what you did there.
I hate it when someone says “We have to talk.†It doesn’t matter what comes after that. My hamsterbrain jumps right onto that Wheel of Misfortune and starts furiously scrambling. This is a reflex I have had for as long as I can remember. And it doesn’t fucking matter who says it or what…
Read MoreManifesting miracles.
When I was three, I went to see the Broadway revival of Hair. As we were dancing in the aisles at the end, and day-glo body painted naked hippies were slipping out of stage traps I turned to my Dad and said “I’m going to do that, too. I want to be on the stage.”…
Read MoreMama’s Family. (No, not the TV show!)
Having Family, whether the one into which you are born, the one you make, the one you stumble into, or the one that welcomes you in, is vital. I have several Families to whom I belong, and they play various roles in my life. My born family, my Hunter Family, my Theater family, my Family…
Read MoreOn my way to S.E.L.F.
Nah, it ain’t some crunchy navel-gazing post. I am on my way ot the Southeast Leatherfest. And, believe it or not, this will be the first time I’ve traveled to a leather event at which I was NOT presenting since my very first Black Rose back in in 1998. What  long strange trip it’s been. I am…
Read MoreIMsL2010: Monthly Wrap-Up.
It has been a month since the International Ms Leather contest. One month ago today, I was in a dazed haze, worrying about the opening number, freaking out about the interview, praying I wouldn’t completely melt down before the weekend was over. Thanks to Glenda, tomo, Ms. Rhonda and Levi for pulling together a stellar…
Read MoreThe more I change the more I stay the same.
So often one wonders how they wind up who they are. At least I do. I will be in a moment, living, thinking, doing whatever it is I’m doing and then part of my consciousness will pull back for a moment and say to the rest of my consciousness “Whoah. Really? Is this really happening?…
Read More‘Eclipse’ Party at The Citadel THIS FRIDAY!
ECLIPSE Women & TransFolk Play party! Friday, March 5 2010 8:00PM – 1:00AM Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax Friday, March 5th 8pm-1am at the SF Citadel Admission: $25 ECLIPSE IS BACK! If you haven’t been to an Eclipse party – what are you waiting for? Eclipse is a powerful gathering of Women and Trans…
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