leather events
Upcoming class at the SF Citadel!
Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:00 PM to 10:00 PM SF Citadel, 1277 Mission Street, SF, CA $20.00 dress code: whatever makes you happy Presented by Mollena (Mo) Williams Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the alternative lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for…
Read MoreIgnorance = Freedom
On Sunday, September 5th, 2010, I got hit in the face with an epiphany about my journey in Leather, in slavery, that shifted my paradigm, re-routed a stifling blockage of self-pity, and enabled me to take back a part of me that felt broken and damaged. It was a massive reset. I was…
Read MoreLeather Reign 2010…my keynote speech.
I’ve been invited to do keynotes at Leather / Kink events a handful of times, and as someone who doesn’t really believe in writing speeches, this always throws me into a blind panic. Yes, one of my own making but I personally challenge myself to life up to the challenge of what speeches are, IMO,…
Read MorePSA: Munches. Are. Low-Key. On. Purpose.
I have now, in the past 3 days, seen 4-5 threads about newcomers complaining about the lack of kink, sex, and fuckery at Munches. If you read the history, you’ll see what happens when Munches deviate from this rule. And some folks in the PNW re-learned this lesson the hard way recently. Dating and “getting…
Read MoreMama’s Family. (No, not the TV show!)
Having Family, whether the one into which you are born, the one you make, the one you stumble into, or the one that welcomes you in, is vital. I have several Families to whom I belong, and they play various roles in my life. My born family, my Hunter Family, my Theater family, my Family…
Read MoreStockholm Pride: True Unity!
I was invited to Stockholm to speak on BDSM at Camp WISH and at Stockholm Pride. Amazing honors, incredible women. Some trying obstacles in my own life, but so much learned. I’ve made some new friends I am pretty sure I will have in my life for a while to come. And I love, love…
Read MoreOn my way to S.E.L.F.
Nah, it ain’t some crunchy navel-gazing post. I am on my way ot the Southeast Leatherfest. And, believe it or not, this will be the first time I’ve traveled to a leather event at which I was NOT presenting since my very first Black Rose back in in 1998. What  long strange trip it’s been. I am…
Read MoreIMsL2010: Monthly Wrap-Up.
It has been a month since the International Ms Leather contest. One month ago today, I was in a dazed haze, worrying about the opening number, freaking out about the interview, praying I wouldn’t completely melt down before the weekend was over. Thanks to Glenda, tomo, Ms. Rhonda and Levi for pulling together a stellar…
Read More69Stories: Re-Loaded!
YES! I microwaved and updated my shit for a new streamlined version of the original smash hit 4-peater, 69Stories: One Pervert’s Tale! Some of your fave old school stories, some new even stickier stories, a few years of sobriety and the chance to intimately probe my brain are what’s new! Read all about it in the official…
Read MoreHNT: Catharsis.
A couple of weeks ago my full-time employment-centric lifestyle evaporated, much more quickly that I thought would be the case in my life. That same week I received word that my roomie, who is awesome, was moving out as she and her girlfriend had found a place. All this as I was returning from a…
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