Podcasts
Conversations with TPN: Episode 9B!
Picking RIGHT up where Episode 9A chopped off…this is the third section of a six-part series on transparency. Vulcan approaches to coping with emotional surges, feelings and how personal transparency helps PE work. J.P. comes so…close…to making a broad sweeping statement (gasp!) on the crude nature of using emotional obfuscation as s tool for control.…
Read MoreConversations with The Perverted Negress, Episode 9A
Shave that pussy! Will Coco wind up nekkid? Will we reveal the Super Seekrit Mysteries of why dominants who don’t read as domineering, extroverted Alphas maybe have additional hurdles to o’erleap? Â How do you submit to a “mere human” when you might be drawn to a hot archetype? And how the hell did J.P. Get…
Read MoreConversations with The Perverted Negress, episode 9!
Transparency, fools! Why do we not see so much of it from dominant types? How important is it in d/s and M/S relationships? When is the hunter more vulnerable than the hunted and who is hunting who in the first place? And more importantly. JUST HOW SWEATY IS JP?!? All this and more in the…
Read MoreWanna help me get it up for longer?
I’ve started podcasting, and so far it has been pretty awesome! A handful of chats with the Superfly (for a white guy) J.P. Robichaud, and a couple from me, and it seems some folks are digging it! You can see the episodes I have up thus far here: Â http://www.mollena.com/category/podcast/Â and please feel free to click on…
Read MoreThe Negress Natters ~ Twitter Q & A
Yep, the Angry Uterus is on a hormonal rampage. So, In an effort to hold off on crying myself to sleep with a fistful of cake in one hand and my overheated vibrator in the other, I tossed it out there that I’d answer questions from Twitter & FB. Usually, this never works but tonight, it…
Read MoreConversations with The Perverted Negress-Episode 8!
Sex, Kink, Sexuality, Â what does it all meeeeean?!? Brainnoms again with J.P. Robichaud and we try to hash out sexual satiation vs. erotic satiation. Aaaand…have moderate success with that. Â On eroticising sammitches…and on Coco The Cat’s refusal to bring sammitches. Why SMs are pretty much The Shit and how much it translates preeeety damn flawlessly…
Read MoreConversations with the Perverted Negress Episode 7!
How excitin! The conversation continues as we talk about my recent stint on the Savage Lovecast!  We bring in a question that wasn’t included in my Q & A from Dan Savage What is up with sexual satiation vs. erotic satiation? And how about  sexual sammitch making, bro? And we also riff on god-mikes and…
Read MoreConversations with the Perverted Negress Episode 6!
In this bonusy episode, a per-recording tangent lead me to hit record! We talk about education amongst the Confederacy of Kinksters…about the need for more kink-identified folks to be therapists for us, Â why we hear about how tops should bottom but we rarely hear about how bottoms should benefit from topping, and how awesome it…
Read MoreI’m On THE Savage Lovecast!
I have been reading Dan Savage’s ponderings on sex and relationships since back in High School when we used to run to get the Village Voice, flip to the back, scan his column and gleefully read aloud each letter that opened with“Hey Faggot…” the reclamation of that term was radical for a whole lot of us…
Read MoreConversations with The Perverted Negress: Episode #5
Not to be confused with Mambo #5. Gah…now it is stuck in my head. No one to blame but me…I brought that shit on myself. Whereon I plead for an editor and J.P. and I flounder around trying to remember what we had just said. So, we talk some more about hunger, gut instinct, low-hanging…
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