Scene Reports
One year. Today.
In one year… I have grown so much. I’ve pushed myself beyond the bounds of what I thought I needed to find joy, what I thought I found desirable, what I thought was possible. It was a year ago today I shook hands with a man who, I would very soon learn, was to…
Read MoreHNT: Catharsis.
A couple of weeks ago my full-time employment-centric lifestyle evaporated, much more quickly that I thought would be the case in my life. That same week I received word that my roomie, who is awesome, was moving out as she and her girlfriend had found a place. All this as I was returning from a…
Read MoreHappy Birthday Lolita!
I am fortunate. I am lucky to have “Grown up” in one of the more vibrant and open cities when it comes to alternative lifestyles. As a magnet for all manner of freaks, San Francisco is one of the crossroads: all of the “Big Name Fancy Perverts” come on through. My favourite part of getting…
Read MoreFireplay: u r doin it wrong.
Fireplay can be a dramatic and sexy aspect of BDSM play. Whether you are doing a quick swipe of someone’s skin with flash-paper or using some high falutin’ fire floggers, it is certainly an eye-catching and showy scene. Unless you set everything on fire. I was recently reminded of a scene I saw many years…
Read MoreSunday Morning Sexytime Story: First Time.
Today’s Sunday Morning Sexytime Story is one some of y’all may have heard before and speaks to the power of a vivid imagination and suggestion. And my extremely trusting inner paranoid!
Read MoreRunning away to home.
Dark moods are not unknown to me. Though I have many fewer now than I did even a year ago, and by orders of magnitude fewer today than I did when I a still actively drinking myself to death. the (up?down?)side to this is that today, I am committed to turning my heart to face these moods…
Read MoreFeeling wrong feels right.
A few years back, I saw an insanely rough sex moment in an adult flick. A man was hitting it doggie style, shagging the hell out of a woman while pulling her arms into a painful stretch behind her. He then abruptly folded her arms together on the small of her back, swung his leg up…
Read MoreScene Report: Diva #23
Shibaricon marked the first BDSM Convention for which I’d made multiple play-dates, all of which I initiated. I’ve spent the past year-and-a-half of so building up my kink résumé with many events, cons and classes: and all but a handful of them were out of state. I haven’t played much locally of late, and I…
Read MoreJust fucking.
My knuckles pressed into the pale hollow formed by his hip as the muscles and bone slipped beneath skin damp from the shower, and I slid my hand up his side, ribs evident beneath an expanse of freckles. “What’s with this Jesus of Nazareth post-fasting look you’re rocking here, dude?†He laughed, somewhat ruefully. “Yeah…
Read MoreShibaricon was the shizz, yo.
If you were at the FUCKING AWESOME Shibaricon in Chicago this past weekend, you know how much WIN was contained therein. I’ve been traveling bunches this past 6 months or so. More than ever before in conjunction with BDSM scene events. Much of the time, I spend an inordinate amount of time in my room…
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