Submission
Submit. Fiercely.
“Sekhmet” ~ by Laurel Green  As often happens my brain revs up to impossible speeds just as I’m going to sleep. I am certain that this is because “normal working hours†are at odds with the hours in which I work best. I am NOT. Bloody. Diurnal. If the average person has an 8-hour window…
Read MoreIncidental submission.
The other day I was told “No, you’ll do it this way.” In my professional life. And, Ganesha help me, I loved it. Sure, at first, not so much. But within a few minutes I was strangely pleased. Smoothed out. Dare I say, perky, even. I had a customer issue I needed to address, and…
Read MoreObedience & Submission, take 2.
I just had an aha….let’s see if this lands. I wanna post before I forget that I think this is a good plank in my platform here… * * clears throat ** “OBEDIENCE is bowing to the letter of the law, while  SUBMISSION is bowing to the SPIRIT of the law.†Whaddya think?
Read MoreSubmission vs Obedience: Mo’s Internal Committee is no help at all.
“There’s a difference,” I mused, while furiously scanning kinky profiles to find a couple of dozen that meet the insane criteria for my Nefarious Corporate purposes “…for me there IS a difference between being obedient and being submissive.”  This gets the attention of Mo’s Internal Committee for a moment. Today we’ve had some shit rolling…
Read MoreWhen I know I don’t know.
Some things are indelible in the soft clay of my heart. Those moments of connection with someone where it isn’t about verbal communication. Where the lips the teeth the tip of the tongue aren’t in play because you look at someone and you get volumes of information instantaneously. I love this moment. I have them…
Read MoreChoking on “Shoulds.”
One of the Happier Discoveries I made about being a pervert is that lots of the idiosyncrasies, pathologies, fetishes and freakish desires that many people frown upon in the General Public are not only just fine by pervs, but are actively encouraged. You Like to boss people around? Great! Find yourself a pliant submissive and knock…
Read MoreShallow Mo…
I don’t usually advertise myself as a switch. Why? Because I’m not, centrally, switch-focused. I have found a depth of fulfillment within my submissive nature that is pretty fucking startlingly WINtastic. But every once in a while someone gets through the cracks and I think “Well, maybe, maybe I could switch…” And I wish it…
Read More“Topping from the Bottom”: what it is NOT.
I cringe and bristle when I hear the phrase “topping from the bottom” It is often used as a pejorative within the Leather and BDSM community to denote one who is in the position of receiving sensation (the bottom) directing or “topping” from what “should be” a subordinate place. The problem I have is this: the…
Read More“Top’s Disease”: The pathology of arrogance, or kinda hot?
If you are a self-identified kinky person, you may have heard of “Top’s Diseaseâ€: the dominant who shows off in scenes, is riddled with self-importance bordering on clinical monomania may fall into the category of victim of “Top’s Disease.†This is the idea that a dominant or top has a terminal kink-centric narcissism. Believing their…
Read MoreFUCKED (Under 500)
Trying out this new thing, seeing if I can pull off telling an (in)decent fucktale in under 500 words. Whaddya think? “Don’t move. Don’t fucking move. if you move and you make me come right now I swear to god you’ll make me very angry and I don’t think you want that.” I could hardly…
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