Friends and Benefits.

Days fly by and as the Steve Miller band once famously crooned time keeps on slipping slippin’ slippin’ into the future and I’ll be flying not quite like an eagle but indeed to the sea or rather from sea to shining sea as I jet from the Pacific to the Atlantic for an odd whirlwind…

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A Bad Dream

Several hundred people are gathered in the main amphitheater and the chatter is low, solemn, but cheerful. Ownership Day is usually a really big celebration, the day when owners are permitted to take their slaves to collar in public ceremony and submissives are acknowledged as being part of a household or in the collar of…

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My Epic “Best Of” Craig’s List Post.

email this posting to a friend best of craigslist > SF bay area > The Prize for the LAMEST Booty Call I have endured goes to…. Originally Posted: Thu, 6 May 13:39 PDT The Prize for the LAMEST Booty Call I have endured goes to… Date: 2004-05-06, 1:39PM PDT I suppose it is my fault…

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Race Play Interview – Part II

This is part Two of an interview in which I recently took part…best to read part I first, or you’ll be all “Huuh? Whaaaaa?” Andrea Plaid: That’s what folks got tripped up about with the Ciara/JT vid. Mo: Look, I have never lived in the South on a plantation and felt the terror of my…

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Race Play Interview – Part I

The delightful Andrea Plaid, aka @CruelSecretary Twittered me last week, asking about Race Play. There was a bit of a heated debate on this Justin Timberlake / Ciara video, see, and she thoughtfully wanted to find a POC into kink to get their POV. Of course, my immediate reaction was “Well, sure, I’ll talk about…

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Under 500: “Aftercare”

The line between consciousness and sleep blurs to a haze of breathing and soft contact and the tug of a hand on heated skin. There are moments you want to last because you can’t imagine anything better than what you are feeling right now; the slow twist of a sheet wrapped perfectly around your foot,…

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from COLORLINES MAGAZINE: “Playing with Race” by Daisy Hernández

Mollena Williams is gregarious, the kind of woman who makes a point of saying, “How are you today?” to the Walgreens cashier. She has a short afro and laughs easily. She works as an administrative assistant and at night, she pens her theater performances. She is also a masochist. Williams is part of San Francisco’s…

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Perfectly flawed.

  Being submissive and desiring slavery, craving physical and emotional ownership would seem to place me at a disadvantage, relationship-wise I have to be the one looking to fit into the right “place,” right? I mean, there is the topdominantowner, fully formed and domly and all, needing me to be what THEY need in order…

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iPerv.

I don’t have an iPhone. I’m not connected with this company and I’m not making any money off of this.   But I find it terribly delightful that iPhone has a kinky app.   From their site:    Need to keep your minions in line? Have an unruly co-worker that you’ve always wanted to smack…

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WYD?: Bond vs. Bond

Take a moment and ponder…to whom would you rather bottom? And why? Would Connery’s take on Bond, the martini-shaking snappy-phrase emoting sly slick talker, light your fire? Or would  the newer sleeker deadlier Craig’s Bond be more your speed? Vote, damn you! [poll id=”4″] the void: when are you going to do the next WYD?…

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