Performance. Anxiety.

“How can I compete with a class where someone gets a fucking BLOWJOB from a PORNSTAR?!?!” This is my agony today. Lame? Maybe.  Weird? Certainly.  Self-precipitated?  Definitely. But nonetheless. See, as a kink educator, I have the unique opportunity to share my experience with other perverts. I think that is a singular honor, one  I don’t take lightly, and…

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Where ARE these “Predatory dominants”?

I attend quite a few Kink / Leather / BDSM events. I don’t wear obvious symbols of ownership.* I’m a pretty friendly person. I can count on one hand the times I’ve been slimed by tops at these events. in over 11 years, it is an extremely rare occurrence. But to read the fluttering panicky…

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