Posts Tagged ‘BDSM’
Race Play Interview – Part IV (Conclusion)
Well this is the wrap up! By Ganesha’s prehensile trunk and gorgeous plump belleh, this shit is EPIC. Thanks for reading along, and thank you Andrea Plaid for her remarkably open mind and thoughtful questions. If you are just jumping in, STOP. STOP RIGHT NOW! I fuckin’ mean it and go back and read the…
Read MoreArt Imtates Life.
Many years ago I took a class called “Writers Who Act.” The class was taught by the BLOODYFUCKINGAMAZING Anne Galjour. She is one of my greatest inspirations in performance, in theater, and in life, for lots of reasons into which I’ll not go into right now. In the course of this class, I started telling…
Read MoreRace Play Interview – Part I
The delightful Andrea Plaid, aka @CruelSecretary Twittered me last week, asking about Race Play. There was a bit of a heated debate on this Justin Timberlake / Ciara video, see, and she thoughtfully wanted to find a POC into kink to get their POV. Of course, my immediate reaction was “Well, sure, I’ll talk about…
Read MoreNot tidy. Not polished. Still real.
Trusting myself enables me to do truly miraculous things…like trust others. Trusting others enables us to do truly miraculous things, like make pain transcendent and find new ways to access our souls. In addition to this past weekend being my second anniversary of being sober (whee!) I was in Chicago to talk about a play-style…
Read MoreDark Odyssey, day two…
Day two of the Dark Odyssey event and frankly, it is pretty great. My sleep patterns are crazy! My dreams are even crazier…last night involved a complicated play involving a friend of mine attempting to fuck me up the ass behind every door in the room of a 56 room Victorian mansion..yesh. It was, at…
Read MoreDIY Masochism [Or: “Ow!! #@%$^!!!”]
The other day I was at my desk at work, grimacing over the hundreds upon hundreds of photographs of our member’s members when I decided I needed a fucking break. I stood up and was about to push my chair back when, by the Holy Sweet trompibulating trunk of my Dear Lord Ganesha I smacked the FUCK…
Read Moredigging. uncut.
I have too many. Â Identities. I do not even feel compelled to list them all lest they take on the glib slickness I am striving to escape even now. Â I do not want to be looked at. Â I need to be seen. Â And using attitude as costuming, my history as the…
Read MoreThe new “WHO’S YOUR DADDY?” poll is up!
We all do it. Fantasize about celebrities, historical figures, the hot Pizza Delivery Guy…wonder what it would be like to engage in hot nasty horizontal mambo, vertical sweaty shenanigans, and hardcore SM DP gang-bangs, where you are plundered and used by hot ruthless tops with unflagging, demented sexual appetites. Maybe that lat one is just me…   One…
Read MoreMaking a Dark Odyssey…alone.
I will be leaving beautiful San Francisco to visit our nation’s capital twice within a one-month period. W000t! This first is to take part in the stunning moment of history that is the Coronation Inauguration of Barack Hussein Obama. Holyshit. I still have a slow burn of effulgent shock when I think on what we…
Read MoreFemDoms: my sympathies.
In my experience, Lifestyle female Dominants are among the rarer critters in the plains and valleys of the BDSM / Leather Lifestyle Landscape. These women are often beset by hordes of male submissives. It sounds like an awesome proposition no? To have packs of men swooning at your feet. Who wouldn’t want to be the…
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