Posts Tagged ‘BDSM’
For my FetLife Friend.
So may times over the years I see submissives fall “prey” to “predators” or fall  “victim” of a bad dom or exploitative wolf in leather clothing.  I recently made the online acquaintance of a woman who was going from an online to a real-time dominant / submissive (d/s) relationship.  The fairytale for which…
Read MoreCongratulations, Graduates of Journeyman III Academy!
A hearty Huzzah!!! To those graduating today from the Journeyman III Academy. Your commitment and dedication is an inspiration to those in the Leather Lifestyle who strive to better themselves and better serve. I am proud to call many of you friends and a few of you Family. There are many paths to choose when…
Read MoreJust another day in Pervidice.
Though I rarely take things for granted, I do occasionally fail to step back and see the larger surreal picture. Seurat-a-tat-tat when I DO step back I inhale the myriad blots and splotches that resolve into a story told in moments. Recovering from the abrupt rape of a badly decomposed molar was complicated by goddess-awful…
Read More“Kiss My Boots.”
I often hear people talk about pivotal moments in their lives with longing regret: wishing they’d known then how critical a moment this fleeting juncture would be. I have had the pleasure / terror of Total In-The-Moment-Surety that something was going to be a life altering event even as it happened. The unifying theme is…
Read More(Mind)Fucking it up. Again.
 I just spoke with Robin, the delightful Programming Director of The Exiles. I’m stoked to have been invited back to present a class for them!  Especially after The Incident at the last class.  Oy vey ish meir.   Um, anyway, yeah!   This is going to be the “Taboos: Playing…
Read MoreMo’s Emo Munch.
Since the first Munch was held in 1992 in the South Bay, perverts have been getting together casually over coffee tea and food to shoot the shit and try to hook up. I attended a Munch today that had me in a bit of a contemplative mood. A friend was exchanging messages with their new…
Read MoreThe Knife Edge of Consent. {Not for the PC or faint of heart.}
 [disclaimer] This is a description of an impromptu scene I experienced several years ago. I post it since I had a discussion recently about scenes that rumba on the edge of non-consensual assaulted nutjob time. While there is implicit consent overall, the act described herein is not something I condone for everyone, and Might Be…
Read MoreFetLife: FTMFW! Booya!
I will blatantly pimp today. I have been a pervert for a long time.  My High School boyfriend and I liberally applied handcuffs and hogties in the bedroom. Back then, it was pilfered clothesline from his Mom’s laundry supplies. That very first relationship was, for a while, a triad. Yeah, I had it goin’ on,…
Read Moreteapot headtrip.
Sometimes, people who are involved in kink feel compelled try to explain to non-kink identified people why we do this kinky shit at all. Often, pervs will talk about their kink as though only other pervs do what we do, and no non kinky human can ever understand the “Depth” of service. The thing about…
Read MoreAin’t no fucking saints up in here.
I stay away from online drama. I have been doing the “online thing” for a while now. Not as long as some, but longer than others. I still become honestly puzzled by people who assume that a common sexual bent will somehow filter out jerks, losers, douchebags, whiners, predators, evil beings, and just plain old…
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