HNT: Dressed and still Nekkid.

August 13, 2009 |

I performed tonight at an AMAZING event called “Bawdy Storytelling” and you can see the information about it in my post from a couple of days ago. Dixie DeLaTour hosts and curates it and I know how much work that can be. And I major fucking HUGE round of applause because she is flawless. She…

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“Bawdy?” Check. “Storytelling?” Ditto.

August 11, 2009

The pretty-dang-awesome Dixie DeLaTour nudged me on Twitter today to see if I might be able to talk to some people about sex tomorrow night. And hey, it turns out I’m free :-) I’ll be talking about one of my long-time fantasies brought to real-time…kind of, at least! I talked a bit about it in…

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OMG How Lucky is Graydancer?!?!

August 8, 2009

I like talking. I do it quite a bit. I even do it virtually. A lot. Because I enjoy it. I started talking when I was only a few months old, according to my Mom. I’m sure it was kind of cool until she realized I. Would. Not. Stop. But I’ve managed to do pretty…

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Shy Freaks.

August 4, 2009 |

Who we are is never, ever a one-dimensional painting. It is a sculpture, kinetic, a maze, a faceted crystal, a subterranean cavern, an oceanic abyss, a windswept plateau, all of these things. Having a dawning realization that you might resonate with something about BDSM, whether it not it is something as simple as fascination with…

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SF’s “IRON DOM” contest is tomorrow!

July 31, 2009 |

The “Iron Dom” contest has been going on for a while now, and I’ve participated in it, as either a willing “victim” or a Judge. This time I’ll be the MC…whatever the fuck that means. I assume it means I get to talk trash, and for this I am always prepared to step up to…

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Submit. Fiercely.

July 21, 2009 |

“Sekhmet” ~ by Laurel Green  As often happens my brain revs up to impossible speeds just as I’m going to sleep. I am certain that this is because “normal working hours” are at odds with the hours in which I work best. I am NOT. Bloody. Diurnal. If the average person has an 8-hour window…

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The fundamental things apply…

July 14, 2009 |

I had Someone Who Has Been Flirting with me ask me today if I “…liked kissing.” Which is a pithier query than one might think. See, being uninitiated in the vagaries of my journey and experience within the BDSM community, he couldn’t have been aware of how charged a question this was for me.

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Hey! Fuck You, Stan Lee.

May 15, 2009 |

As a big old Pervert, I’m always glad to get tips from my friends, twisted or not, about the interesting dark matter they unearth here and there. So I was tickled when my buddy Mike Twittered me about this cool looking on Joe Shuster, on of the guys behind the Superman comic. Then I read the…

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The FatGirl Pervert Rants.

April 20, 2009 |

I’m fat. (For the record: I do not use / identify with the euphemism BBW (Big Beautiful Woman). I respect those who do, it just isn’t my choice. “Large,” “Plus-Sized,” “Big” are terms I occasionally use. For me, I prefer fat.) I am, unsurprisingly, ambivalent about it. There isn’t a whole lot of acceptance around…

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