The fundamental things apply…

I had Someone Who Has Been Flirting with me ask me today if I “…liked kissing.” Which is a pithier query than one might think. See, being uninitiated in the vagaries of my journey and experience within the BDSM community, he couldn’t have been aware of how charged a question this was for me.

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I just want your extra time and your…

I find it very interesting that even the most jaded perverts seem to agree with my particular POV: kissing is an extremely intimate act. I had an ongoing casual thing, for years, with someone who I don’t think I ever kissed. Perhaps the first time. Maybe. Once. However. When the stated purpose of the meeting…

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