WTF Wednesday: tiny collar.

One of the more romantic ideals within the BDSM world is that of collaring. But it is not a universal conceit: the symbolism varies wildly. There are some folks for whom a collar is a nice accessory, an ornament, worn because it looks sexy. And it runs the gamut all the way to those for whom…

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WTF Wednesday: what’s that about Black women, dude?

I absolutely cannot kill my internal eternal optimist. Many have, inadvertently, tried to quell Little Mo’s bright-eyed bushy-tailed wellspring of hopeless romanticism. “You never know!” she’ll pipe up in hopeful, dulcet tones “Stranger things have happened! Sometimes people find wonderful folks online! Give it a try Mo!” SO, I open my in-box on yet another…

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WTF Wednesday: Did you READ my profile?

I know it is tough. When you are surfing the interwebs to look for love, perhaps you lack the time to read every line of every profile of every woman into whom you want to stick your penis. But please. My gods. Some of the responses I get to my profile. This gem today in…

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WTF Wednesday: Rope Bondage

There are 47 reasons, on any given day, why kinky stuff gets my jeebies heebied. One of the things I can enjoy, regardless of my emotional connection to my play partner, is rope bondage. There are many aspects of kink that are intensely personal for me, things that get right into my head and places…

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