Education
Don’t let it slide.
Too many people, overwhelmingly on the bottom / submissive side of the kink equation, have a tendency to have a “let it slide†attitude. You know. You meet someone, they are very aggressive on the first date, move too fast, but because you emerge unscathed, you “let it slide.†Someone pushes a limit, but maybe…
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Got some gigs booked for NYC, people! I am deeply delighted honored and straight up wiggly at the prospect of going Home and being able to perv out with new and old friends. Here is the line-up so far…and if you know of a venue or organization whom I ought to contact and squeeze in…
Read MoreThrowing my corset into the ring!
The stars aligned, the event for which I was supposed to travel to Denver was canceled, I do not have rehearsal for “Drip” that evening, and miraculously I’m insane enough to do it. *deep Breath* I am in the running for Ms. SF Leather 2009!
Read MoreFloating World, Flukey Weather.
On the way to Floating World I ran into a couple of moments of Zen. The first was cool: I ran into the charming and dope ass Q in the terminal. Q was on the way to the Butch Voices Conference, even as I was headed back east for Floating World. We chatted a bit in the…
Read MoreCatch me at Floating World!
I’m off late-night tonight on the red-eye to New Jersey. Gods help me…it pains my Harlem slash Upper East Side NY grrl heart to even type that… But it is for a good cause, since it’s gonna be just me and 1,199 other perverts for a weekend of depravity. Â
Read MoreRunning away to home.
Dark moods are not unknown to me. Though I have many fewer now than I did even a year ago, and by orders of magnitude fewer today than I did when I a still actively drinking myself to death. the (up?down?)side to this is that today, I am committed to turning my heart to face these moods…
Read MoreThe wildness.
I got The Wildness yesterday. Voice in the head clear as day, no fucking fooling around, said to me what you need to do is get out of town for a few days. GO. Uh…kinda difficult with work with all of the writing, reading, reviewing and shit I have to do I can’t just run away from life it…
Read MoreSubmit. Fiercely.
“Sekhmet” ~ by Laurel Green  As often happens my brain revs up to impossible speeds just as I’m going to sleep. I am certain that this is because “normal working hours†are at odds with the hours in which I work best. I am NOT. Bloody. Diurnal. If the average person has an 8-hour window…
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