Perversions
writhe a while in my ropes.
I recently read about a dominant who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist that they are not a “Real Dominant.” *shudder* 34 things wrong with that, but I will only address one. I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse to bottom. Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant…
Read MoreFuckin’ Fundie Perverts.
I have observed, over the years, a passive-aggressive tendency among perverts to denigrate one another’s choices within the Leather Lifestyle. For me the MOST insidious behaviour is the posturing of some people who self-identify as slaves. They are the ones most often referring to themselves with the dubious title “True” slaves, and farting in the…
Read MoreDon’t talk to me ’bout “True” if you ain’t Spandau Ballet.
Oh how I bristle when people fling their titles, judgments and assessments all over the place like jizz from the willy of an epileptic kangaroo. I cannot count the times when some dumbass has spouted “Well, if you were a TRUE submissive, you would submit naturally and without hesitation!” or the equally shitastic “TRUE Masters…
Read MoreThe Good Semenitarian.
I obey hot porn stars.
So when I burble on Twitter somethin’ ’bout my crazy idea that it would be cool to run for a Leather Title, and Jiz Lee is all “Do it!” I think I have to, y’all. I mean, when a queer genderqueer gender-varient trans fag androgynous erotic model pornstar dykestar sex worker artist activist instigator sweetheart…
Read MoreBaseline.
I often see people holding forth regarding “kink orientations” in an effort to understand others. People often pose questions like: “What is up with these people who want to be told what to do?” “If I do not want to be told what to do, but I enjoy pain, am I not submissive?” “What if…
Read MoreWhite people make better canvasses?
I had an idea about an on-your-feet exercise to conduct in today’s class on “Race Play”. Though it relies on a certain percentage of PoC being in the room. I can’t ever rely on that at the average Leather event, so we’ll see. Yesterday I was at a class that dealt with how one might…
Read MoreSunny with a 98% chance of masturbation.
Folsom weekend!  Thank the gods that my friend Julie went to the UK this week and left me her car, because it is infinitely more preferable for me to panic-pack a metric-fuckton of fetish wear and saucy clothing and throw it all into the trunk of her car than it is for me to thoughtfully plan…
Read MoreSchwagtastic.
Totally my idea. Â Totally bitchen, yo.
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