DIY Distress.

September 23, 2009 |

I started noticing it when I was in the late-stages of my first kink relationship. The late stage where the sex and kink die-off, you aren’t playing as often, maybe the thrill is gone or you’re in line with 2-5 other women waiting to be slotted in at the dominant’s convenience. And then it began.…

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DIY Masochism [Or: “Ow!! #@%$^!!!”]

January 29, 2009 |

The other day I was at my desk at work, grimacing over the hundreds upon hundreds of photographs of our member’s members when I decided I needed a fucking break. I stood up and was about to push my chair back when, by the Holy Sweet trompibulating trunk of my Dear Lord Ganesha I smacked the FUCK…

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digging. uncut.

January 12, 2009 |

I have too many.   Identities. I do not even feel compelled to list them all lest they take on the glib slickness I am striving to escape even now.   I do not want to be looked at.   I need to be seen.   And using attitude as costuming, my history as the…

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